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I saw a post on Threads today talking about how parents of Gen X kids were toxic because we were sent outside to play until dark and were ‘latchkey kids’. The poster claimed this was ‘toxic parenting’. While my mum was a stay-at-home mum until I was an adult, my siblings and I were sent…
The Australian government wants to ban kids under 16 from using social media. They put up an option for people to put in submissions and it was open for only 24 hours. I didn’t have time to do one, however here are my thoughts. I understand there are issues with social media. There is bullying,…
I am completely burned out. I have been burned out for a lot longer than I realised. Burn out may look different for different people. For me, I am fatigued, sleep doesn’t make much of a difference. I don’t wake up rested. My brain doesn’t seem to function properly. I forget things, overthink, can’t settle…
I see a lot written about how perfectionism is a ‘trauma response’ and often blame parents for this. This take irritates me no end. I recently got into a discussion on Threads about this. Someone posted that she was positive her strive for being perfect didn’t come from her parents, and I completely agree. Looking…
On Friday night, I attended the first business networking event I had attended in quite some time, probably since I closed my business back in 2011. It’s certainly the first I attended since I was diagnosed autistic and ADHD. When I arrived, I stood at the door for around 15 minutes. No one came up…
Over on Threads, I saw a status talking about how labelling a child ‘gifted’ will mean the child won’t put in the ‘hard work’. While this may be true on some level, there is something else happening here. I was one of those kids who found things easy. I would be taught a concept and…
A common theme through romantic movies is miscommunication. This often happens near the end of the movie, after the lovers have declared their feelings, or are just about to declare them, there will be a miscommunication of some sort. It may be the male lead sees the female lead with her ex, he is down…
Author: Rudy Simone Category: Non-Fiction Publisher: Jessica Kingsley Publication date: July 15, 2010 Blurb: Girls with Asperger’s Syndrome are less frequently diagnosed than boys, & even once symptoms have been recognized, help is often not readily available. The image of coping well presented by AS females can often mask difficulties, deficits, challenges, & loneliness. Review: This was such a mixed book,…
In many romance movies, there is an elder of some sort. This is usually a grandparent, but can also be someone the main character or main characters grew up with such as a teacher or employer, who the main characters can talk to at key moments in the story. There are a few movies where…
People often say, ‘diamonds form under pressure’. This is used as a ‘motivational’ quote, and one that is often used to minimise struggles people are going through, as well a way to encourage them to work under stress. I have had people say this to me when I’m struggling to function in a high-pressure environment.…