A blog about all sorts of things!
One of my favourite holidays growing up was a holiday at home. My parents made a big deal to everyone about how we were going away, I think it was for a week. One evening, we were all packed into the car and drove around. I think we stopped at McDonald’s for dinner, which was…
I realised yesterday that I have never owned a new television in my life! At least, not since I moved out of home when I was 18. When I first moved out, I lived in share houses for a couple of years and the television was owned by my housemates. When I got married, our…
In a group I’m in, someone posted a link to an article ‘How should a Christian view ADD and ADHD?’ I grew up Christian. My parents were missionaries. I’ve been a member of churches of various denominations my whole life, apart from the last few year. Here’s my take on being AuDHD and a Christian.…
I have always hated being blindfolded. When I was a teenager, there was a youth group activity where people took it in turns to be blindfolded, then were guided to do a series of activities. The idea of this freaked me out and I sat out. I was teased by others in youth group, though…
Earlier today, I saw someone post on Facebook: Imagine… now you have control over your beautiful , powerful mind… This made me laugh, for a simple reason – I never have control over my mind. I never have! My mind often feels like a runaway train going down a hill. It decides to go on…
I’ve shared a few posts with tips on how I manage the household, but realised today that I haven’t shared my biggest tip… Get a cleaner! For me, having a cleaner is a game changer. We have someone how comes once a fortnight for an hour. She cleans the bathrooms and vacuums and mops the…
My phone is getting old. It doesn’t hold the charge as long as it did when I first got the phone. Most days, I have to plug it in around lunchtime to charge, even if I haven’t used it very often. I have taken to carrying a charger with me if I’m going to be…
I have realised that I am an intuitive learner. I pick things up and, in some things, I seem to just know what to do. If you give me some software and let me play, I’ll play around and work out how to use it. If you give me a text book, I’ll follow the…
I have seen quite a few posts lately in autism groups talking about struggles with friendships. I admit that I’m right there too… it’s something that I really struggle with. I have read all the books, done programs, even did a program when I was teen. I do all the things that they tell me…
This morning, I read a post on Threads about teaching kids to notice the housework. Not just do the housework, but notice that things need to be done. I realised this is an issue with so many people, including me. And it seems to be common in the autism & ADHD community. Things need doing…