Melissa Gijsbers

  • Fussy about my chai

    Fussy about my chai

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    It’s OK to be fussy about your coffee, or in my case, chai. I am often given a hard time because I like my chai a certain way. Not too sweet, and a certain flavour. I take my own tea bags with me as I don’t assume people have chai of any kind, let alone…

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  • Types of Smiles

    Types of Smiles

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    I was talking to a friend the other day about ‘social skills’ classes. These are often attended by autistic kids to teach them how to be social. One of the things we discussed was smiles. In the class, my friend’s child was told that when someone smiles, they are happy. The child piped up and…

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  • Neurospicy Characters

    Neurospicy Characters

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    Last November, I started a list of books that I have read that feature characters that are explicitly neurodivergent. This includes memoirs, novels, middle grade, and picture books. You can read that list here. I update this as I read more books. When I compiled that list, I promised to create a list of books…

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  • Review: The Kiss Quotient

    Review: The Kiss Quotient

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    Author: Helen Hoang Category: Novel Publisher: Berkley Publication date: 5 June 2018 Blurb: Stella Lane thinks math is the only thing that unites the universe. She comes up with algorithms to predict customer purchases–a job that has given her more money than she knows what to do with, and way less experience in the dating department than the average thirty-year-old.…

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  • Support like a teenager…

    Support like a teenager…

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    Last night, I came across a clip on Instagram by Morgan Foley talking about how she feels like she will always be stuck in a teenager state. You can view the clip here. As I was watching, I felt myself wanting to shout out ‘YES!’ She starts by saying she has low support needs, that…

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  • Being Late Diagnosed is a lot like a Romance Movie

    Being Late Diagnosed is a lot like a Romance Movie

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    I enjoy watching those cheesy Hallmark romantic comedies, so many are set around Christmas, however there are others that are set during different times of the year. You know the ones, a guy or girl returns to their hometown & falls in love. They are usually straight to TV movies and there are so many…

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  • Getting my dancing shoes on

    Getting my dancing shoes on

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    Growing up, bush dances were a highlight of the year. We would have them fairly regularly after school holiday programs. They were so much fun. I loved the dances, the fact someone was telling me what to do, the feeling of community. It was an activity where I didn’t feel left out and sitting on…

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  • Review: Little Victories

    Review: Little Victories

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    Author: Yvon Roy Category: Memoir Publisher: Titan Books Publication date: 7 July 2020 Blurb: The award-winning graphic novel autobiography of a father, and the challenges he faces raising his autistic son. A beautiful visual exploration of the highs and lows experienced by a parent learning how to adapt to his son’s autism. Faced with a challenging road ahead, the author…

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  • Review: Harriet Hound

    Review: Harriet Hound

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    Author: Kate Foster Illustrator: Sophie Beer Category: Middle Grade Publisher: Walker Books Publication date: 3 May 2023 Blurb: The world’s happiest and most dog-friendly superhero is here! A brand new adventure for junior readers from Kate Foster. Meet Harriet Hound. She’s eight years old and loves dogs! But Harriet has something else that makes her super … the power to…

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  • Moving IN to my Comfort Zone…

    Moving IN to my Comfort Zone…

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    All my life, I have been told to step out of my comfort zone, try new things, have new experiences. It’s not something I really understood. I never understood the appeal. I would push myself to do all sorts of things. So many that others told me were out of my comfort zone, I didn’t…

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